THE WEDDING DAY

On the wedding day, a close relative of the groom who is supposed to help the bride dress up comes to her house with the wedding dress and other items. Before going to the church all close relatives and friends bless the bride and the groom in their respective residences. The wedding car comes to pick the bride after reaching the groom to the church. Here at the nuptials the couple declare the wedding vows and the priest then pronounces them man and wife. 

After this on their return from church, the newly wedded couple comes to the groom's house and the groom's mother puts a gold chain on the bride's neck and places the 'saddo' on her shoulder. Prayers are recited or sung, an example of the Tedeao.

Tedeao
Laudate Domino, omnes gentes,
Laudate eum Omnes populi
Quonian Comfirmate et super nos
Misericordia ejus
Et Veritas Dominie manet iu eternu
Gloria Patri it Falio, et spiritui Sauto
Siput erat iu principio
Et nune et semper
Et iu secula Seculorem
Amen.

They then proceed to the venue for the reception where the wedding cake is cut and all dancing and merrymaking takes place with food and drinks being served. A toast is also raised for the happiness and prosperity of the married couple




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